Haay..

"may babae si joseph..nahuli ko sila.."

I received this text message from my sister this morning. I didn't know what to say. Nakakainis. I tried hard to push the negative thoughts away. Another cheater. Another broken heart. Another crying wowan because of marital unfaithfulness. I have heard (and seen) so many issues about infidelity. Minsan nakakatrauma na.

*my uncle left my aunt for another woman because she can't give him a baby
*my cousin cheated on his wife who was working abroad because he got so "lonely"
*a friend almost committed suicide after discovering her husband being unfaithful to her
*someone is dating another man because her bf can't give her what she needs (emotionally and financially)
*this girl flirts with her officemate just for the heck of it
*this guy sleeps with another girl whenever he can.

Cheaters. Cheaters. Cheaters.

What the f*ck is wrong with these people? Ano bang nangyayari sa mga tao?

Do they cheat because they have the chance and opportunity? Or para wala lang? Do they cheat because they are unhappy with their partners? or bored sa relationship kaya naghahanap ng "fun"? To get emotinal fulfillment? or sexual satisfaction? Do they think cheating will help them feed their self-esteem? Feeling macho/ganda pag may kabit?

Cheating is fun, fine. But if they become so attached to the person they are flirting with, it starts to be so addictive that they can't let go anymore. What makes it more fun is the thrill (and danger) of getting caught. Alright, fine, minsan ang pagkukulang na din ng mga asawa/bf/gf nla ang reason that pushes them to cheat. But still choice pa din nila kung manloloko sila diba? Besides if they really love their partners, they won't do anything to hurt them right? When will they come to realize the pain they bring when they cheat? Do they know that these people have to deal with so much pain and misery when they do something stupid like that?

Whatever it may be, there are no acceptable reasons to cheat while other partner is being left in the dark, deceived and tormented. Mga ganyang tao, wlang backbone!!

To you ate, it's up to you whether to give this man a chance. If you do, you're taking the risk of being fooled again. But if you don't, you might be missing the chance of making your family whole again (malay mo, magbago na siya..i hope) . Just be wise in making big decisions like this. Be strong and take care of your self and the kids.

I need to unwind. Nakakairita na to.

Ciao!